Speaking Low: Animal Separation: (Unedited): 23-26 Feb 2017:

Speaking and thinking low quality words. Devalues your self identity and self worth.

C.J.MacKechnie

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 What are low quality words?
Curse words, offensive words, words of accusation, words of threats. All manor of sinful speaking and sinful thinking. Any aspect of slave speak. The negative thoughts and words you have within you. Which I call stinking thinking and coined by some other famous inspiring person of the world. I currently forget his name.
The bastardization of words into street slang or hood slang or prison speak are still forms of low quality words no matter how cool they are now or have been or will be. All of it devalues and confuses how your mind thinks. If you put trash into your brains do not expect beauty to come out. If all you hear and experience is hatred, angry, threats, violence and the need for social justice to occur any way possible. Do not expect any joy, peace, happiness or love to come into your lives or experienced in any way. Why do you think children have that gonna kill you look on their faces all of the time? Why do you think children respond violently to any disagreeable situation in the hood culture?
To escape from a destructive and violent culture begins with changing how you think and speak. If you speak like a slave then you must be a slave. If you speak like a criminal then you must be a criminal. If you react to any circumstance like an animal. Then you must be an animal.
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Animal Separation: (Unedited): 26 Feb 2017:

Becoming like and acting like an animal is separation from your basic form and your enlightened spirit.

C.J.MacKechnie

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Personal Note: This area is something where I struggle. No excuses.
I can remember my own children trying to speak like I do. I told them very boldly not to talk like me and to speak better than I can. To exercise a mastery of the language. I do not speak verbally very well. Yes and I know I do not write very well either. I do the best I can. I have expressed and expectation of them to be a better human being in every regard than I can ever be. Which includes the elimination and prevention of all manor of stinking thinking and negative thinking. One does not need to symbolically beat your own self up when the whole of the world is gonna try to beat you down. When the animalistic ganging up on occurs and you personally allow it to happen. Kind of like baseball. Where you have one man standing up against an entire apposing team alone. He must make positive things happen for his entire team alone.
Sometimes when your history is so dark, bleak and without any real hope. You must all by yourself stand up, step out and maybe even go back into hell and stand in for everyone else. While pointing the way out. If that is the will of the Great Spirit or Holy Spirit.
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Historical context: Slave speak is how slaves speak and think. Because of their lack of education. Slave speak can be perpetuated in cultural social settings and passed repeatedly onto the next generation of children. Today in a modern era where there may not be slaves or the word slave has been changed to other words like migrant workers. Slave speak or slurring of non accepted and non approved words is still a form of slave speak. Even though it is popularized as how to speak cool and to be like those cool people.
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This was a work of inspiration by the artist know as Prolific The Rapper. A man who may see extensive jail time for filming atrocities cops and corporate mercenaries committed against unarmed and defenseless American citizens. 
It is also noteworthy that a sitting Judged has already allegedly made personal judgements against persons before a court case even began. I expect no justice for those arrested in North Dakota for being associated with the Native Tribes protest. Actually, they do not like the word protest or protestors. They are and were water protectors.   
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Standing Rock

Water is Life

Where are the Christians as prophecy unfolds in real time before their very self blindfolded eyes?

Did you know there are more than 700 Bible verses about "water"?
http://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Water
Did you know there are more the 59 Bible verses about "Rock"? Duplication possible.
http://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/God,-The-Rock
http://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Rocks
http://biblereasons.com/rocks/
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To avert all of the coming bad and sad prophecies. We each must decide to do the following everyday, every hour, every minute and every second.

To Love one another.

To live in peace with everyone.

To exist in harmony with all.

To Cherish all life.

To be obedient to the Laws of God.

To become righteous and holy by the accepting eyes of God only.

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Good Heart Quality: Empty Heart Mind Reason: (Unedited): 21 Dec 2016:

Spoken words does not prove the quality of any persons heart, nor the quantity of goodness within any persons heart. No matter how eloquent the words they speak. 

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Empty Heart Mind Reason: (Unedited): 21 Dec 2016:

Even though the heart may be empty and the spirit closed off. The mind can still reason to the right heart felt spiritual answer.

C.J.MacKechnie

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Many people pretend to be spiritually keyed into the unknown and prove their hearts are full of love, compassion and mercy by their own powerful words. Yet, when they are alone. They do not do those necessary things. Or if they had begun forcing their heart to do good things. They often times become exhausted and burn out.
It is easy to see if you really want to see. All you have to do is just open your eyes and see them. 
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Even though a child may never be able to articulate the whys and hows the importance of actions over spoken words. Never the less the actions or non actions of those important adults in a child's life is more important than any verbal expression of love.
Yet the verbal expressions of apology and love seem to be capable to change the world for a young child who was offended. That child will just forgive and forget and go play. While the adult may never forget nor will they ever forgive. An adult will just hold onto those old hurts until they become anger and hatred. So become like the child.
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https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+18&version=NIV
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+19&version=NIV
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Mark+10&version=NIV
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Blind Obedience: Martyrdom Joy: Greater Quality: (Unedited): 15 Sept 2016:

Blind obedience gains a person virtually no wisdom or understanding. Except for the saving or profiting for the benefit of the self.

While a person who freely decides to do good has done so based on their wisdom and understanding. Even though they may lose their own life and/or lose their wealth.

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A robot blindly obeys all of it's instructions or programming code. A robot does not know good or evil. It just obeys. Their is no wisdom or understanding neither is there a need to want wisdom or understanding.
Human beings and even of animals. Learn and Know wisdom and understanding. I understand if I place my hand on a hot stove. Serious pain will result.
To force a person to obey or to die. Causes that person to learn nothing except how to save their own life. A person who is forced to obey becomes an instant mindless slave or robot. Absolutely dependent on those who tell it what and when to do it.
With the exercise of free will and free choice. That person learns much knowledge, wisdom and understanding. Even if it will cost that person their wealth or life.
All of the quality, meaning and purpose in life a slave will ever have is what comes from those who rule over the slave.
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Martyrdom Joy: (Unedited): 16 Sept 2016:

By creating great enduring misery in life for the slave. The slave will learn to yearn for the day that they will be selected to know the joy of martyrdom. 

C.J.MacKechnie

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Martyrdom Joy #2: (Unedited): 16 Sept 2016:

The joy of martyrdom is freedom from a life of misery, sadness and pain.

C.J.MacKechnie

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The great misery you endure in life comes from those who rule over you. Do you not think that if they wanted for you to have any sort of life with any kind of satisfaction or joy. Then could give it to you or allow you to experience. Instead those who rule over you pass the blame to them and those in that far away land. Those who are less than us and who are less than dogs. They are the barbarians who have caused all of your misery. While at the same time those who rule over you only offer one way for any kind of joy, satisfaction and happiness. That is through the joy of holy Martyrdom. Have you not seen in the eyes of those who were selected for the great honor of Martyrdom, joy and satisfaction of being selected? While hoping that they will be self worthy enough to go through with the holy mission of righteous martyrdom. This is the only way for an Islamic person to ever know peace. For all of their joy, satisfaction shall end when their blood flows into the streets. While what meaning and purpose they had in that brief period of time has been transferred to those who rule and profit over all of your deaths.
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The misery, sadness and pain you desire to free yourself from. Can come through escape from the enslavement of your spirit, mind and body. You have worth and importance in this life. Purpose and meaning does not have to come through hatred, anger, violence, destruction and death. These are anti God. God wants for all of us to express life with love, peace, harmony. God wants for all of us to cherish life as something of great value.
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Greater Quality: (Unedited): 16 Sept 2016:

Greater is the quality of life, meaning of life and purpose of life for the person who can freely and willfully choose to do good things.  

C.J.MacKechnie

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1). What is good? Only God. We can only learn good from God.
We all can emulate good to the best of our own unique abilities.
2). What is good? Love, Peace, Harmony and life. The laws of God assists us into seeing and maintaining good through our own abilities for self control and self discipline.
Yes, the laws of God are absolute. But, they reflect the gift of our free will. This is why when we each fracture any of the laws of God we are not instantly dead. This is why I do not believe that God wants slaves. Slaves do not learn on their own. Slaves do not grow up to become responsible and dependable human beings. Slaves do not become self sufficient to a degree as defined by only God. Only those who have a free spirit, free mind and a free body can become the most it can be as only God can define it.
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High Q: HighQ Haiku: (Edited): 09 Nov 2015:

Those who respect the job or mission while maintaining high Q's (Quality, Quantity, Qualified, Quintessential) shall be continuously accused by the insufficient for all of their ill perceived professional woes.

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High Q Haiku: (Edited): 12 Nov 2015:

Maintain your mission

Quality and quantity,

Despite others' spite.

BY: RLD

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Those who are insufficient at work shall always blame the person who maintains their Q's mostly above and beyond what the bosses' desire as well as under budget. This continuous and unrelenting effort by a singular person amongst slow paced workers does create much hostility in one direction. That direction will be from the many toward the one. While the one will most likely be oblivious to the whining complaints of the many, the bosses need to be aware of that one singular sign, which is the many all at once complaining to the bosses while the one is silent. The many will look very bad if the one hard, efficient and smart worker remains employed. If the bosses offer a deaf ear to the complaints of the many, then the many will most likely begin to terrorize the one through sabotage of equipment that one person uses and sabotage of final products, jobs and missions. Also through subtle means will the many terrorize the one - through social exclusion of all kinds, through the spread of never ending rumors that the one will not hear anything about - until the point comes when no one will want to work with the one person any longer.
I tell you this truth: it is better for the bosses to rid themselves of the many instead of the one. If the bosses allow this kind of professional terrorism, sabotage and social ridicule to continue, then those immediate bosses need to be released from their own duties, to be followed by the release of the offending many.
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In anything and everything you do, you should want to maintain the 4 Q's because you want to, not because you have to. The Quality of your work should always be easily seen and Quickly known by all. The Quantity of your work should be of a sufficient number as to tell those you are a smart, efficient and hard worker. You should always be Qualified above the minimum tested standards for general acceptance. You should have the desire to be a part of a Quintessential team.that also desires to maintain the Q's.
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Victory Quality: (Unedited): 28 Oct 2014:

Wishing ill will or injury of your greatest challenger, not only harms them but also harms you by diminishing the quality of your honorable victory. 

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For your victory or even your loss to be honest. Both sides must be at their best. All attitudes must be positive, prepared and righteous. Any cheating, harming, hating and negativity only taints the goodness of any victory or even a loss.
A loss can be more important than any victory where questions have risen. A loss can and reveal all of your errors in training and preparation. Especially, when you have believed that you have done everything you could have done. Your errors revealed are those opportunities for you to decissively make those newly identified errors in training and preparation.
With any clouded victory. One tends to celebrate and not question the victory by simply proclaiming a simple notation in the win column is more important than anything.
The attitudes of those who feel a need to cheat, harm or hate needs to be self altered. If they cannot be self altered. Then that team player, coach, management person needs to be changed. even if they are one of your aces. Becasue, they may not be able to be trusted when the body is weary, the mind is taxed and the spirit is confounded. From this state those negative and unrighteous feelings may end up in unfortunate actions. Which brings everyone down to that disgusting level of competition. Thus, spoiling any hope for an honorable victory or even loss.
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Bringing Ugliness: (Unedited): 07 July 2014:

It matters not the quality or quantity of makeup you use to maintain your physical beauty. The ugliness you bring into your being will over power all of your makeup and cosmetic surgeries.  

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All of the worlds ugliness you agree with contaminates your mind and confuses the connections of your spirit. Assuming you believe in a spirit. Which false beliefs also harms your mind without any awareness from you. You know you are deceived when you believe in ghosts, spirits and or demons but not in a divine God. You do not know you are deceived and lied to when you express racist beliefs to those of similar skin tones. Your racists deceptions in completely a realized truth within you. A pure falsehood believed as truth by you and continued to be taught to you through your purely deceived friends and mentors.
The lies and deceptions within the cultures, societies and laws of the world also causes you harm. Even though you may have a sense of freedom to do as you will when you will. If your freedom causes you or anyone else harm. Then it is not good. If anything you do is absent of love and is solely based on your own selfish desires. Then your actions will eventually cause harm. From your self and wrongful actions in life cause a deep ugliness to grow within you.
The teachings from the world, society, cultures and religions can also cause ugliness within you. Especially, with they all teach that WE are the special ones and everyone else is to be excluded based the color of their skin, Shape of their specific body parts and etc. Any person who claims a leadership role and excludes any other person based on any physical attribute is wrong and is deceiving you.
The sins which you freely commit, which are taught by the religions you refuse to believe in. Will also cause you to become ugly. To willingly become impure isn't really ever a good idea, no matter how good it feels in the moment.
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The alcohol, the smoking, the drugs and it all matters not of their legal status or cultural acceptance. All of it seems to either harm the mind, the body or both. So, how is any of it good for you. If it is not good for you. Then it all causes ugliness within the body.
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To always be hateful, angry, aggravated and irritated is to perpetually exercise those facial muscles into permanent contortions. Which will always be recognized by anyone in your later years. Is a permanent angry face beautiful?
So be warned of those who teach you and to cause you to choose to always be angry and hateful. For they are stealing away your beauty. Look upon those faces of those persons who demonstrate in the streets. look upon any face and ask yourself if they are angry? Look upon an older person and witness the effects of their emotional life history. Were they happy, sad or angry for the majority of their life?
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Race is a De-humanizing thought made into a truthful action with it's origins based in lies and deceptions. The act of racism is a truthful action from a person or a group of persons who believe that the separation and division of the races is a truth. There is not many races which is separated by skin tone or ethnic origins. There is one human family.
Any leader who leads or wants to lead a thing and proclaims the falsely believed truth of the multiple races is either deceived and cannot think for them-self or is a liar. Either way. They cannot and should not be a leader of any thing. C.J.MacKechnie
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:The Lies and Deceptions of RACE:

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We are all one humanity, one species and one family. When all of the common peoples unite together to love one another, to live in peace with each other and to exist in harmony. Then we all can find a very rich life we all can live with great meaning.
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If you cannot separate yourself from the lies and deceptions of the separation and division of the races. Then you, your family and your entire church will/may not be one of the elect, protected, saved or raptured. You must begin to know and believe that we are a single race of beings called humans. We are all brother and sister to one another.

The DNA fingerprinting was established in 1984. Read it well. Believe the truth and reject the lies you have only known as truth. 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DNA_profiling

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race_%28human_classification%29

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_Genome_Project

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The history of humanity told by many different traditions. 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noah

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adam_and_Eve

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From about 8 minutes and 50 seconds to the introduction of the European leader. Listen good. This was in 26 June 2000. President Bill Clinton Library.

http://youtu.be/Y_8XRkb-wbY

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Research for yourself the Human skin. learn how it is the largest organ of the human body. Learn about all of the primary functions of the human skin. Then learn about the minor function of the coloring of the skin. Learn how if you lose a primary function of the skin. You can die. Where as if you lose your skin coloring. You will just be uncomfortable, but still living with possible social ridicule. Now, after you have learned all about your human skin. Ask yourself this. Why do we not compare other organs of the body with other people such as the liver, kidneys, gall bladder and etc. How come there isn't racial stereo types for those who can drink much alcohol and those who cannot drink? Why? Race or the coloring of the skin is illogical and without any actual fact. 

=============================================================To maintain your beauty. You must be pure. You must put into your body those nutrients which are pure. You must put into your mind those which are pure. You must maintain your purity of spirit. Through your spiritual connection with the Divine.
By rejecting sin, rejecting lies and deceptions, by rejecting impure foods and drinks. By rejecting all mind altering substances. Your physical body will be to re-glow in it's own beauty.
By outwardly expressing love, compassion and mercy. You are doing beautiful things. Especially, when you do not expect any accolade or reward.
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Mission happiness: (Unedited): 25 March 2014:

The focus of the mission orientated person and that of the passion orientated person may be very similar. The only difference between the two is one receives much joy and happiness.  

C.J.MacKechnie

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The professional person who takes the quality and quantity of their work personally is not one to be avoided. These types of  persons within your leadership and management teams is necessary for the common worker to be around. The common worker does not have the training or even the mentality to be leaders or management (not intended to be insulting). (I'm not leadership or management material).
The common person who comes into contact with a passionate leader/manager shares in their enthusiasm for the job. To such a degree that the entire team of common workers begin to work at a higher level of quality and production. (Even if it is at the expense of your cultural happy food like Pappa Johns Pizza in New Port Richey or Marcos Pizza in Trinity). The cultural happy food can only be given when the mission has been accomplished, period.

http://youtu.be/RyyGgcRqrhs

You big wigs in the corporate structure of life. Need to be able to look down from your corporate castles of glass and steel. To feel the world of your common worker. The word feel is very important. By feeling you the corporate person may become a more complete leader/manager or even a human being.

Because, 

It is they who hath built your castle.

It is they who continue to maintain it.

It is they who continue to clean it.

It is they who has the pride it all they have done for you and continue to do so. So, when you act like they, the common workers are your simpleton minions, who are animals to be endured. Your haughty attitudes will become the down turn of the entire corporate structure. But, Then again. What do you care. You get that big and huge pay package and there is more than one zoo.
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Contrary Life: (Unedited): 04 Nov 2013:

When your life history in action has always been contrary to the meaning of life. You should not logically expect a high quality of life as a predicted outcome. 

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What is the meaning of life?Have you gone so far as to ask that question? or has apathy so infected your humanity that you no longer care for anything or even your own life?

 The path to suicide at any level is apathy.

Suicide can be done by the individual, country or entire planet. Is suicide an aspect of life or death? Of course you know that answer. The universe has an importance to maintaining life. Death happens to the insane and the unmoving. So be rationale and move.

If you have been reading any of my blogs. It is all in there, it really is. The meaning of life surrounds you and me and it is all the same everywhere. It is absolutely logical and can be easily predicted. The pieces of the formula has been taught to many different cultures by their own prophets. 
No matter what I have written or how I have written it. Search and find for the positive message in each one. Some may require much intellectual exercise. But, you will become stronger for them. This is what you should do in all things in life. Find the positive, even if all of humanity has walked the path of global suicide. yea, that is beyond my own capabilities even though I know it to be true. Find the positive and use it for your own personal motivation and inspiration. By doing so, you become deserving so and from that expectation, you create it so. This is not meant to be selfish , more predictable is the intention.
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This is how to end the insanity of global suicide.

*Life=Love+Peace+Harmony*

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This is how you progressively move towards the insanity of apathetic suicide at any level.

Death=Hate+War or Conflict+Chaos

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Intimidating Fear: (Unedited): 26 Oct 2013:

Effective intimidation causes your opponent to fear you before your arrival. 

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The psychological effects of playing against a better team with better players can be very tough to overcome. You must not accept absolute defeat before the game even starts. To do so, lessens you and your quality of play.
Instead do these things. Practice perfection more. Improve your skills at all levels. Manage the threats presented before you. Be smart and play with honor and respect.
Force your better opponent to earn their victory. By doing so gains you respect and honor.
Do not allow any bad decisions tarnish their victory. Let it be pure.

By you pushing your opponent to be better. Your opponent will be pulling you to be better. Thus, both of you will mutually benefit from the actions of one another. Though you may lose the game. The great challenge you have faced , is in itself your victory.

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Got Released: (Unedited): 06 July 2013:

The unrepentant ex-convict will always declare to others that they got out of jail instead of being released. 

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 Being in control even if you have to lie and deceive others is important. Even when your speech is the same as other ex-convicts. Still the lies and deceptions persist in that particular culture. Each of the men and women who have been in the various forms of imprisonment cannot grow beyond the errors of their ways when that entire ex-convict culture seems to ignore and or silence any kind of admission of guilt, fault or blame.
Healing can only come when the illusion of being in control is admitted as non existing. Honesty, integrity and honor must come from a renewed heart and mind. From that place of helpless loneliness can something new and good grow with their hearts and minds.
Until, that happens. No change in the quality of life will come.  No real jobs. No real quality housing. No real opportunities.
So as long as you embrace a culture where lies and deceptions is the normal. A great everlasting fog will always remain enveloped around you and around those whom share your presence. Question everything with respect. Seek out the truth at the source. Do not trust the words of anyone who desires to lead you. Because, they are probably a better liar than you are. When you discover their lies and deceptions. Now, you will know that they only wanted to use your body until it was of no longer usable.

To free yourself from the ex-convict culture or from any other culture which is based in lies and immoralities. You must educate yourself from the source. You must search for the truth in all of your own thoughts. Which means you have to unlearn all that you may have thought as truth when in fact it all has been a lie. There lies your freedom, hiding behind the numerous veils of lies and deceptions. Behind the last veil. Is not only your freedom but a life worth living.

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Life Quality: (Unedited): 19 May 2013:

The quality in how you live your life after traumatic events. Is evident in the unbelievers eyes. When your history has been revealed. C.J.MacKechnie

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When your friends discover that your history has been less than desirable. They're unbelief in the story of your ugly life is the proof that you have made the right and correct decisions in your life. 

Just smile and express gratitude.

Re-assure them that it is OK. Because some who may hear may not be able to handle with this new information about your past. You may have to help them through with the living with those old memories of yours. Keeping your history of abuse, torture and abandonment a secret may be a wise thing to keep in order to protect the innocent from re-living your life.
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OK Job: (Unedited): 12 June 2010:

There will always be those who will only want to know the job at hand and nothing more. That is OK.

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 Some people only want to do that which is minimally required of them. That attitude is perfectly OK. Some people want to be a slave and live as slaves do. That to is OK. Even though the slaver attitude may be an irritant to the free man or to the person who has a deep hearted desire to do with the highest of quality controls. It is still OK.
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This is something that I've had to come to terms with. It is OK for a person to do exactly as directed for them and nothing more. Even if that person sees another problem or that they know what they have been directed to do won't fix a problem. They remain quiet and allow the authority to take all responsibility and blame. You know something That is OK for them to do what they do. That is not me and I'm unable to do just a minimal task. Yes, it drives me nuts. But, It is still OK.
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