Have you ever looked at a good piece of rope, long power cord, Fishing line and etc, Which some how had magically become all tangled and tied in knots. The tangles and knots does not automatically make it bad.
Once you dedicate time and energy in objectively and logically untangling and loosing the knots. You feel a victory. You fixed and solved the problem. The rope, cord or line is now in it's intended usable condition.
This is the same mentality one should have in learning a new thing or understanding a gift which cannot be physically explained with Earthly reason.
Sometimes the knots in our lives has their own specific reason. A knot can hold down, hold tight and graft. Learning about the knots in the real physical world can go a long way in explaining those things which aren't.
Especially, with questions in regards to the Christ gifts.