Have you ever approached someone and just began giving them directions? Of course not. A lost person or any person who needs help. Must first ask and be motivated to take corrective actions on their own. You can of course remain close but you cannot do the overwhelming majority of the work. Even to ease their suffering or misery. The difficult and hard work is a part of the lesson. To remove a lesson will interfere with the learning process. Suffering and misery can be a part of their lesson. But, not to the extreme where the possibility of life is extinguished.