Victory Quality: (Unedited): 28 Oct 2014:

Wishing ill will or injury of your greatest challenger, not only harms them but also harms you by diminishing the quality of your honorable victory. 

C.J.MacKechnie

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For your victory or even your loss to be honest. Both sides must be at their best. All attitudes must be positive, prepared and righteous. Any cheating, harming, hating and negativity only taints the goodness of any victory or even a loss.
A loss can be more important than any victory where questions have risen. A loss can and reveal all of your errors in training and preparation. Especially, when you have believed that you have done everything you could have done. Your errors revealed are those opportunities for you to decissively make those newly identified errors in training and preparation.
With any clouded victory. One tends to celebrate and not question the victory by simply proclaiming a simple notation in the win column is more important than anything.
The attitudes of those who feel a need to cheat, harm or hate needs to be self altered. If they cannot be self altered. Then that team player, coach, management person needs to be changed. even if they are one of your aces. Becasue, they may not be able to be trusted when the body is weary, the mind is taxed and the spirit is confounded. From this state those negative and unrighteous feelings may end up in unfortunate actions. Which brings everyone down to that disgusting level of competition. Thus, spoiling any hope for an honorable victory or even loss.
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Used User: (Unedited): 06 July 2013:

A user who may be being used. Will always try to get more out of the person whom they think is using them. 

C.J.MacKechnie

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 A person who believes that everyone is a user will attempt to use everyone more than they perceived to being used by them. It won't matter if the person whom they think are using them is being honest, honorable, Loyal or trustworthy. If the person is of a good nature. They will become greatly damaged with a broken heart from the person who believes everyone uses everyone else. This is another aspect of Apathy.
A user is one who employs many lies and deceptions in order to get what ever they can. They will even pretend love or even confuse certain intimacy, lustful practices as love when it is just a means and ways to get what they want for as long as they want.
This is evidence of an individual who has been greatly damaged. A person who is in great need of psychological counseling without medications. A person who is in need of salvation in spite if they speak the words "I'm already a Christian. The fruits which is seen by others is your evidence of your Christian faith. If you have no fruit. Then that is your evidence. If your fruit is sour, frail and hidden in secret  darkness. Then that is also your evidence. If your church life is separate from your family life, personal life, professional life. Then this is why your so confused and worn out. Once you become a Christian there is no other life but the Christian life. Everything else leads to death.
There will always be users and those who are used. Christians will always be used by evil and wicked people and become happy with what they take or destroy. Fear not and become weary not. Do not allow apathy to sink into your heart and mind from any or every attack from any evil doer. Just continue to pray, meditate and contemplate upon the Lord Jesus Christ. While keeping your nose in the Holy Bible.

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