Showing posts with label INFJ. Show all posts
Showing posts with label INFJ. Show all posts

Friday, May 8, 2015

Awesomenicity Awesomeness: (Unedited): 06 May 2015:

Awesomenicity is when awesome people continue to work in a state of raw awesomeness. 
C.J.MacKechnie
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Awesomenicity is not a real word, but it can be.  Just right click and then select Add to Dictionary.  See instant new word. Just awesome ain't it. lol
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The awesome mind set. The awesome work ethic. The awesome perfectionist.
There are also, the derogatory insults. Which is used by those people who just don't care. The INFJ  or the person who is not aware they are a INFJ. It can be a tough existence with so much contradictory feelings. The important thing to keep in mind is what is right and what is not. Then carry on with what is right without any regard for the average minded people or even the apathetic. As an INFJ. I've had to learn that it is OK to disregard those peoples feelings who are just wrong. It is OK. It is OK for them to continue to be wrong with their subjective arguments.
For some it is personally important  to work hard, to work smart and to do high quality works. If this is a part of your identity. Then do not be less then your capability for the easement of other peoples possible attacks onto you. By not being who you are in this regard. You are sinning against yourself through denial. This is not right, not good and healthy for you. So have courage and be free to be yourself.
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Mind Capitulation: (Unedited): 09 May 2015:
Capitulation is for the weaker mind, weaker argument and weaker life. 
C.J.MacKechnie
 People who tend to believe in very little will change everything for that which only appears to be more powerful. This is also about believing in yourself. It is not easy being an INFJ. This is probaly the reason why there are so few INFJ's. Because, only the strong in spirit and the strong in mind can be an INFJ. This does not mean you won't become weary from time to time with all of the constant battles of the mind.
It is OK to go and find your quiet tree and let your brain do what it naturally does. It doesn't have to be a tree. It can be the stream, River, lake or ocean. It can be that desert place of apparent desolation. But, go to your place and feel all of that energy there.
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It is easy to be average. You don't have to try very hard.
C.J.MacKechnie

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Never Fear Water: (Unedited): 05 May 2015:

The fear of embarrassing ridicule can cause a person to never begin.
C.J.MacKechnie
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Fear we think of as those negative feelings that tend to prevent us from doing most anything. Putting our hands on the stove or sticking our tongues onto frozen poles up north or swimming with alligators in Florida. These seem like very reasonable fears of self protection and of course there are many many more.
BUT, There are those other fears which seem to be pressed onto us from society and from our peers. Your peers may not have the best regards for you and may only see your mistakes or accidents as instant sources for their own amusement. This very rude and selfish behavior can easily be seen in those YouTube videos where people go out and have those embarrassing accidents or do those things which were not thought out very well. In which you can hear their own so called friends in the back ground laughing while taking video of the stupidity. Any friend not even a good friend would stop another friend from doing any physically harming thing on purpose. I guess today in this modern world there are few friends while there are many who only associate with others who bring amusement and entertainment.
This same kind of attitudes can also prevent a person from ever beginning a thing. Even if that thing could be their thing of future perfection within their own lives.
To be laughed at no matter what the reason or cause. Seems to be more than enough to cause those delicate souls from ever taking that first step towards a wonderful dream or goal which can be manifested. I see this as one of the greatest thefts and cruelties in modern society today.
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I'm an INFJ. As an INFJ I'm not immune from ridicule from my peers as there are not many peers in my world or this world of 7.2 billion people. I'm not a very good writer and yet I still write. I would suppose if ridicule affected me to that degree of stopping I would have several thousand quotes ago. But, The message seems to be more important than proper writing style and you do have to really think about what you read from my uneducated writing style. Can you just get over how I do not use the word There, their or the other one incorrectly from time to time or is that most of the time. Because if you cant it's like staring at the finger and missing everything else. aha, Bruce Lee mix "Be water my friend".Yes copy and paste, go watch it.
https://youtu.be/1ZxGtvpp49M?si=wsjLyZiIKLJB8EFz
Think about Bruce Lee. I do not know if he was an INFJ . But, he suffered ridicule and death threats from all of the Asian martial arts community. Yet, today his vision can be seen in the mixed martial arts which is very popular today. Except for the obvious absence of wisdom and understanding which has been associated with martial arts in their recent history. I guess that is a great sadness in martial arts. Where any person can achieve great skill and knowledge of any art and yet be so unaware of it's history, wisdom and understanding. This is emptiness or a cup with no water and you have an unquenchable thirst for something which seems to be that unknowing thing at the tip of your tongue.
We should all be like Bruce Lee and not like him at all. In other words be yourselves and be unyielding in your endeavors, even if you have not begun them yet or even have a clue as to what endeavor actually mean. Because , be water my friend.
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This isn't about fighting and yet it is. Can you fight with yourself?  Can you fight the Bruce and Chuck which is within each of us at once? We all do and we all must. Those who do find there thing in life. Had to fight many internal battles to get to where they are today and we each must fight many more unknown battles just to see tomorrow.
The statistical and logical conclusion of my childhood dictates. I should be dead more than once, I should be homeless, I should be incarcerated, I should be forgotten. This is my reasonable truth. This is not showing off or up for comparison of bragging rights. I'm pretty sure I may not have been able to survive the life you have lived. This is just a proof that we all must fight our own fights from within and from the outer world. Just the pressure from the outer world can be enough to keep you within your own inner world and that may in fact be a crime. Because, you may be that one person who changes the whole of the world. Can you see how you could be that water flow of change. The avoidance of stagnancy should be within us all and become our outward expression in this life.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bruce_Lee
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chuck_Norris
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Added on 07 May 2015: This was republished by: http://www.cacofony.com/
http://www.cacofony.com/im-an-infj-as-an-infj-im-not-immune-from-ridicule-from-my-peers
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Go and sin no more.
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To avert all of the coming bad and sad prophecies. We each must decide to do the following everyday, every hour, every minute and every second.
To Love one another.

To live in peace with everyone.

To exist in harmony with all.

To Cherish all life.

To be obedient to the Laws of God.

To become righteous and holy by the accepting eyes of God only.
All without any pride, ego, arrogance, supremacy and entitlements.

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Distracted Gifts: (Unedited): 26 April 2015:

The gifted and talented person can see their gifts and talents stolen away through social media and other gaming content distractions.
C.J.MacKechnie
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There is a time and place for everything. You've heard that before right?
This is to the gifted and talented person. You are required by the nature of your own gift and talent to spend many hours daily in the development of your gifts and talent. You are required to focus on the pursuit of perfect as well as learning all there is to know about your gift and talent. This is mandatory. Even to the point where you risk losing or even developing a love for your gift or talent. Hopefully just hopefully you do not become a slave to your gift or talent and just become a willing servant to it. Curses often times begin with angers and hatreds.  Jealousies can also grow the curse of your gift and talent. because the common everyday average and normal person gets to play and spend hours of their daily lives playing digital games and socializing with people whom they may never meet.
So the question is why do you want to be normal and average? If your an INFJ like me. Your or we were born this way. No amount of cultural or social training will change or alter us. Unlike other lifestyle choices and abuses which go untold can lead a person into certain lifestyle choices. In which over time will become an integral part of their natural identity. Even though it wasn't back then but is now. Even altering their own DNA.
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You are who you are. Your gifts and talents have been identified and your parents are enabling you to pursue your gifts and talents. Some parents even push you so hard that the love of your gifts become squashed like thousands of bugs on the summer windscreen (Windshield) of a never stopping big rig truck. The training for your gifts seems to go on forever, never ending, never stopping and always racing forward to that possible if not probable end result. That certainty which could be known but not yet seen. because, you have to work, work, work and never ending work. Is the fun gone yet? Has the fun been murdered?
There is that fine line and it is a part of your focus, your determination, your self will. Your own set goals can become your own driving force. Knowing that 99% of your race, your events, your real world games, you concerts, your tests or what ever it is you must prepare for is in the perfect practice. That's right about 99% of your time must be spent in practice and you must pursue a mindset of perfection during those practices. That is and can be pretty harsh and unfair especially when compared to all of those average and normal people who are completely satisfied with not trying very hard just to pass a thing. Your not normal and your not average. So stop trying to be something you are not.
I know a talented young person who was just told that she must spend for hours a day on the perfecting of her gift. She will have to choose very soon. whether or not. This is a choice which will have a very profound impact on her future. This decision is a very time sensitive decision. A decision which cannot be unmade. She will not be able to turn back time. She will not be able to begin at a later date. The opportunities for a probable future in her gift will become most unlikely if she decides not to practice for hours and hours on a daily basis. Her fear is that it will take away from her life but it is her gifts which are an integral part of her life. A gift is like a leg or an arm. If you stop using your leg or an arm. That body part or gift doesn't go away it just becomes weaker and weaker.
I know of another young man. who is also gifted. Except because of his own internal pride and arrogance. The probably of him using his physical gifts has become unlikely. Despite the wisdom's and understandings taught to him by his parents. The free college potential is gone to him forever. Thousands of dollars of free education lost to this low income kid forever. All of this over losing a life of playing digital games and other hobbies which will most likely not benefit him as would a possibly free college education would.
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The social media trap in this digital world is such a restraining chain around anyone who is gifted and talented in anything. To such a degree that gifts and talents may never be realized. Societies who embrace without any wisdom the digital age may become a society without any greatness or truly great people. The distractions of the digital age shall become a huge stumbling block to any real personal, spiritual and professional development. That's a quote isn't it? 

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Life As It Is: (Unedited): 02 June 2014

Your life is as it is, because of what it was. 
Your life will be, what it will be, because of how you are now.
C.J.MacKechnie
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Change is difficult for everyone. It is just there are those who seem to be able to willing to endure change. While others do not. Even if a person is in a never ending undesirable situation in life. They for some reason want to maintain it. For a variety of fears as defined by that individual.

To sum this one up. What you have done or the lack of what you should have done in your life. Is the logical result of the life you have now. The life you will have is also the same logical result of what you will do or have not done right now.

In life there is always change in regards to aging, social networks and friendships. In your lifestyle there may be change in living in one place or another. Your employment may also change as well. Change is always coming at you in the face. You can have some level of control in your life. Sometimes you may have to lower your living standards in order to gain a little more through the gaining of education or skill sets. The gaining of education is currently the best hope any person can have to upgrade their life.

Going from no education to more educated can be very tiring. Especially, if you have no real family or family wealth and support.
For instance and this is for instance in order to explain a process. The nursing profession has literally dozens of steps for advancement. This may require you to go through a continuous educational process for a long period of time. Do the research on all of the medical certifications. To start at the lowest level and then work your way up. Working your way up may also mean more income and benefits. More income also may mean an improved living arrangement. Be warned upgrading your living arrangement to fast can also be like living inside of a mouse trap.
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Added comment on 19 April 2015:

By over coming your past. No matter how hellish it has ever been. Become your own hero. Rise up out of the fiery quagmire. Step forward and keep moving. No matter what. Become the sole force of wour own will power which moves you into the realm of your own defined personal greatness. Rid yourself of negative mindsets, behaviors and emotions this day. Because the day you rid yourself of all negativity's. Begins your future full of absolute positivity.
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